My 2nd weekend 17-18 Oct

This is another happy weekend for me.

Saturday, I feel like go blading and he had already agreed to go with me on friday night. So when he woke up abt 1 + then we are off abt 2+pm. The plan is I Blade, he will cycle. BUT, he doesnt have a bicycle. So what happened is he dropped me off by the bay, (name of the location is called Oriental Bay), then he said he will go and grab a bicycle. He said he will be bk abt 20-30min. So I went blading by myself first, which is not an issue. I finish the blading the whole stretch in abt 20min. And the wind is super cooling, I love it. Moreover it is dry, not humid or will I have sticky feeling at all. hahah.

Some time passed, I hear nothing from him since then, so I txt him asking him whereabout. He called bk abt 5-10min later and we meet up. He came bk with NO BICYCLE. Then I told him, I thought you are getting one? He reply how can see already n get so fast? hmmmm...I mention to him, I thought we are going to do things together, not i just blade alone... He then said nxt time he jog, I blade.

Alright,what can i said right. Afterwhich we went to the shop where there is helicopter ride (This was somethng I want to do actually before returning to SG for the girls wedding but time doesnt allows). We ask for details, and ask for a package with special lunch cater for us at one of the location. For this trip, he included his bro n sis, so there will be 3 couples-6pax. Okie, then I was thinking, is alright but I still hope to spend time alone, just 2 of us. Before I said anything, he ask if I want to go for a ride now, is a 10min ride but it cost NZD95.Then Yipee I am really delighted. But the weather isnt to nice, and is abit rainy, so initially we say we want a ride now but when I walk out of the shop to go take camera from the car, rain got slighty bigger. Then I told him better next time. Is pointless to waste $$ AND view will be affected.So we cancelled it. BUT I AM STILL VERY HAPPY!!!

Then we went supermarket, because I agree to cook dinner tonight.Aactually I am pretty stress because I abit worry that his parent wont like the taste. (actually is he got me into this hot soup, because on friday night, we went eating with his colleague, which I also know, then he suddenly ask me when I want cook for him, then he say tml, then he called home and tell his mum I cooking dnr on sat night, then he pass the phone to me... what can I say??? sigh... On the phone I told his mum that is okie I cook but what if I cook until very not nice or they not use to it, how? Guess what his mum say, she say:" is okie to cook not too nice, we will still finish it, and u can keep trying and practicing". I am actually very touched when she say even not nice will still finish... so nice right?? but anyway back to story.... he went off to work abt 6+pm. Then I start preparing dinner. He said he will be bk by 8pm but I knew he will be late. That night, his mum abt 7pm called and say she wont be back for dnr & his dad say dont wait for him, he go exercise. I suddenly felt lost bcz is like nobody want eat my food...so sad.... haha but I okie de. I still cook anyway but lesser portion lor...3 dishes... n his mum came bk abt 8.30 and my bf still not home... sigh... then his mum called him.... he say he is coming bk.... anyway, he did came bk, we had our dnr abt 8.45pm... then his mum also had some fo the food. I asked for their opinion, they say got 1 dish quite nice. then the fish no taste ( of course, I forgot to add salt.wahahaha, to stress) And my porkchop cutlet if got gravy will be better. I nodded and accepted =).He went to work again shortly after dinner... but his mum very cute, told him off. She say, I so nice to make dinner for him, yet he not on time to come home...so cute.

okie...SUNDAY... Woke up abt 9+..then he very funny. suddenly keep saying himself fat..then he say he want go gym... haha.. he always said that... but never went... BUT THIS TIME... HE DID, and I went with him. We reached there abt 10am. So we work out. Finished abt 11.45am. And we went to changed and meet at 12.15pm. He waited for me outide ( I like to see him wait for me..dont know why) After which we went to buy birthday present for Cory ( his elder sister's son). He got a birthday celebration at his place), so we went to his birthday party, he turned 6..a very handsome boy actually and I like him. He like to call me Jas and not aunty Jasmine, so cute. Anyway, the birthday party is cute with his 10 other little frenz.

After the celebration, we went to the bicycle shop and we bought 2 bicycles. hahaha. crazy right? and is expensive. It cost 500 each... OFF WE WENT... we ride home. For that last few slope towards is house, it almost kill me.and him in a way. Wahahaha. But I am really happy, Because we finally do things together..

After dinner, we had another ride... I will never forget what he said when we are along the way...

My 1st weekend after my 2nd return-10,11Oct

This is written a week later, so I really couldnt remember much. I only recalled that, I now see that he is trying harder to make me believe that he is true...

This time back, time flies... The very 1st weekend sat is the celebration of his grandma birthday. Is a big celebration and alot of his relative fly back from Canada, HongKong, Auckland... My first time to meet so many of them... I couldnt recall who they are but many very touching displayed was show on grandma birthday.

The family is not too big nor small. But I see that grandma is significant to every one of them, even my bf. He told me a very sweet, funny and cheeky things that happened when he was abt 4-5 years old. He didnt want to eat his food, and guess what did grandma tell him. She said:"if you eat one mouth, you will get one dollar." haha...and he opened his mouth and grandma kept her words.... haha... it might sound lifeless when read from here... but when he said that to everyone in the hall, I saw a sentimental side of this big teddy bear... I am really touched...

I got 2 surprises from grandma. On friday, we all had a causual dinner, and I was introduced to her. I told her I am from SG. And my bf told grandma that he will go over her house to take vegetables ( she grow them herself, and rear chickens, rabbits) and eggs. She is 90 this year, sometimes she forgets things easily. And the 2 surprises is, on Sat, when she saw me, she remembers I am from SG and she ask, why didnt my bf come and collect the vegetables. OMG...

I gave her my promise that tomorrow, my bf and me will be there. And we did... She is like what everyone had said, thrify on herself and spend on others... When we are there, she keep asking us to eat, she cant move to freely, but insist of getting food for her precious grandson... I saw her tears... I saw his tears... and my tears too... I am really touched and upset and misses my grandma so much... Grandma told me, my bf is busy so cant visit her often, then she point to the road and teach me how to come here... She wants me to visit her... I nodded... My tears flow... I can see my bf is very upset because it had been years since he really visited her, and now when he see her aged, his heart sunk..because he knows his grandma doted him alot and he isnt too fillial to her.

I make myself a promise, We will visit her once very 2 weeks. I want him to treasure all the time he can with her and live with no regrets. It really matters alot to me... Like the promise I gave to my grandma... I never forgets...

Oh, here is a photo of us at grandma's birthday celebration.